Skip to main content

Read to Write Better - Stephen King - Just open a book, silly person

If you don't have the time to read, you don't have the time (or the tools) to write.  It is as simple as that.

from:  On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft by Stephen King (See the quote in the book)  (Amazon Link)


Teaching is a confronting profession.  All day long, a teacher is exhorting the students to 'learn' and to 'grow.'  At the end of the day or the week, a teacher looks into the mirror and thinks: "Do I do what I preach?"  For me and many of my friends, the mirror speaks back "Not enough."

As I start a writing career ( or skilled avocation ), do I read enough?  I read some, but not like when I was younger.  I have been seduced by the passive illuminations of Netflix.

So, like many of my students, I have a stable of practiced excuses.  I am tired.  I taught ten hours today.  I am starting an exercise habit.  There is ironing.  I ran out of garlic butter and had to make more.

I, like many of us, move to the activity of least pain ( at the immediate time).  The ironing can be done when I am really tired.  The desk can be reorganized while Graham Norton is playing in the background. But, instead of picking up the book, editing the manuscript, listing out character names and backgrounds, I too often choose British interviewers and spray starch as it is less confronting.

It is a matter of setting priorities.  I took a self-improvement course when I was younger.  One of the things a presenter said was to approach all projects like "your hair is on fire."  I thought that was a little extreme ( A LOT EXTREME ) at the time.  But there is some truth in that.

I am not in a position where someone else's well being is dependent on my actions.  I can almost always but things off.  As opposed to my sister.  She was a big Jersey girl with gravity defying hair and a "boy" whistle to cat-call "guys who knew how to wear jeans." 

Then she had kids.  One of the first things to go was the hair.  "I just don't have the time," she said.  I've always wondered if she kept the whistle.

Anyway, maybe I should approach writing, and life, like I have babies.  Force the focus to shift from what I want to what the writing, the design business, and the teaching book needs.  Would this take the "ego lid" off of the marmalade jar and allow a proper utensil to get into it, scoop it out, and spread it around?



Gratitudes:  Comfortable shoes, som tam, and ice.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Constant Growth - Jack Kornfield - Shedding Old Skin

Just as a snake sheds its skin, we must shed our past over and over again. from:   Buddha’s Little Instruction Book I got this one from Good Reads website: And again I doubled search the source and found out that even though it is attributed to Gautama Buddha, it is really from Jack Kornfield.  Hats off to  Fake Buddha Quotes  “I Can't Believe It's Not Buddha!" website. I was pulled to this quote because what I am trying to do is start a new phase in my life.  I have done this before, as we all have.  Sometimes with more success than others.  But when I am getting discouraged, I think "How many rabbits can I pull out of my hat." The past for me, at this point, is to get rid of bad habits and substitute in better ones.  Unlike the snake, which has only one skin to shed, we have many "skins."  Laziness, Ennui, Memories, Weight, Sedentary days and nights, Wasting time, TV, Facebook, Instagram, Video games, Youtube, "What if's...

Reaching Beyond - Martin Seligman - The Thankless Job of Being an Example

Reaching beyond where you are is really important. attributed to: Martin Seligman Dr. Seligman is the Professor of Happiness.  And I need a dose of that right now. I tell my students: "If it was easy for you to do, you'd have already done it."  I do a lot of work with under-performing students.  Each of them has a personal reason for underperforming, but normally it comes down to fear.   However, while they have been living in the fear, certain behaviors have become habitualized.  Watching Netflix, Facebooking, getting sucked into click-bait.   Unfortunately, the students behavior also trains those around them.  Yes, parents should not bend to the ineffectual and, perhaps, harmful actions and desires.  But they often do.  Parents look at is a 'picking battles,' which only cements the behaviors on both sides. I am in that position myself right now.  My partner and I were complacent with our careers.  It would...

Change - Issac Azimov - Even the smallest amount can make a difference

"The point is that any change greater than the minimal is chaotic." from: Dors the Robot,     Issac Azimov,    Forward the Foundation   Disruptors.  Change Agents.  Change Makers.  Those are some of the (dated) buzz words of business right now to describe things that profoundly affect society.  They can be people, organizations, companies, or ideas that make a difference. We think, many people think, that a big difference has to come from a big change.  This is not the case.  There is the reference to the 'butterfly effect' which is explained as a single wing beat of a single butterfly in China can cause catastrophic weather conditions on the other side of the world. Not only is only small change necessary to make a big difference, there needs to be " luck ."  From the Scientific American article " The Role of Luck in Success is Far Greater Than We Realized ": "People with  easy to pronounce names  are ...